{"id":5845,"date":"2026-06-05T21:08:33","date_gmt":"2026-06-05T21:08:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beyondfinance.com\/blog\/?p=5845"},"modified":"2026-06-30T18:48:53","modified_gmt":"2026-06-30T18:48:53","slug":"tracking-emotional-spending","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondfinance.com\/blog\/reset\/examine\/tracking-emotional-spending\/","title":{"rendered":"Part 2.9 \u2014 Tracking your emotional spending: daily journal &amp; lifetime timeline"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n<div class=\"rc-page\" data-rc-key=\"module2.part2_9\">\n\n  <div class=\"rc-module-nav\">\n    <div class=\"rc-module-nav-inner\">\n      <div class=\"rc-module-nav-left\">\n        <span class=\"rc-badge\">Module 2<\/span>\n        <span>Examine \u00b7 Your Money Story<\/span>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-module-nav-right\">\n        <a href=\"\/blog\/reset\/examine\/triggers-and-glimmers-exercise\/\">\u2190 Part 2.8<\/a>\n        <span class=\"rc-dot\"><\/span>\n        <span class=\"rc-meta-text\">Part 9 of 14<\/span>\n        <span class=\"rc-dot\"><\/span>\n        <a href=\"\/blog\/reset\/examine\/inherited-or-chosen\/\">Part 2.10 \u2192<\/a>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-part-header\">\n    <nav class=\"rc-breadcrumb\">\n      <a href=\"\/blog\/reset\/\">Financial Wellness RESET\u2122 Curriculum<\/a>\n      <span class=\"rc-sep\">\/<\/span>\n      <a href=\"\/blog\/reset\/examine\/\">Module 2 \u00b7 Examine<\/a>\n      <span class=\"rc-sep\">\/<\/span>\n      <span class=\"rc-current\">Part 2.9<\/span>\n    <\/nav>\n    <div class=\"rc-part-eyebrow\">Exercise \u00b7 13 min read<\/div>\n    <h1 class=\"rc-part-title\">Tracking your emotional spending:<br><em>daily journal &amp; lifetime timeline<\/em><\/h1>\n    <p class=\"rc-part-subtitle\">Two tools for seeing patterns you&#8217;ve never seen before<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n\n  <div class=\"rc-progress rc-progress--read\" data-rc-read-min=\"13\">\n    <div class=\"rc-progress-inner\">\n      <span class=\"rc-progress-label\">Reading progress<\/span>\n      <div class=\"rc-progress-track\"><div class=\"rc-progress-fill\"><\/div><\/div>\n      <span class=\"rc-progress-count\">13 min read<\/span>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prose\">\n\n    <p class=\"rc-lead\">You now understand why emotional spending happens \u2014 the <a href=\"\/blog\/reset\/examine\/why-am-i-emotionally-spending\/\">seven needs<\/a>, the nervous system logic, the story underneath the behavior. And you have a map of your <a href=\"\/blog\/reset\/examine\/triggers-and-glimmers-exercise\/\">triggers and glimmers<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n    <p>This part gives you two tools that turn that understanding into active observation. Why do we need that observation? Because understanding alone isn&#8217;t quite enough. Patterns become changeable only when they become visible. And visibility requires tracking.<\/p>\n\n    <p>You&#8217;ll use two complementary tools \u2014 one that operates at the moment level, one that operates at the life level. Together, they reveal something neither tool can show alone: that what you&#8217;re doing with money today has almost certainly been happening, in some form, for most of your life.<\/p>\n\n  <\/section>\n\n  <div class=\"rc-divider\">When you&#8217;re ready<\/div>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prose\">\n\n    <h2>Tool 1 \u00b7 The Daily Emotional<br><em>Spending Journal<\/em><\/h2>\n\n    <p><em><strong>A note on the name.<\/strong> We call this an emotional spending journal because emotional spending is one of the most frequent behaviors we see. If this isn&#8217;t one of your patterns, substitute &#8220;spending&#8221; with your particular pattern \u2014 avoiding, hoarding, over-giving \u2014 and the work translates.<\/em><\/p>\n\n    <p><strong>What it&#8217;s for.<\/strong> Capturing, in real time, the emotional logic of each spending episode \u2014 so the patterns underneath your behavior become visible over days and weeks rather than staying hidden inside individual transactions.<\/p>\n\n    <p><strong>When to use it.<\/strong> Daily, for at least fourteen consecutive days. Not for every purchase \u2014 only for purchases that feel emotional, impulsive, comforting, distracting, or that you noticed yourself second-guessing. If you&#8217;re not sure whether a purchase qualifies, it qualifies.<\/p>\n\n    <p><strong>How to use it.<\/strong> For each emotional purchase, capture the following \u2014 in a notebook, a notes app, a simple document, or in the box below, whatever you&#8217;ll actually use consistently:<\/p>\n\n    <ul>\n      <li>Date and time<\/li>\n      <li>What I bought<\/li>\n      <li>What was happening before<\/li>\n      <li>How I felt in my body before the purchase<\/li>\n      <li>How I felt emotionally before the purchase<\/li>\n      <li>What I was hoping the purchase would do<\/li>\n      <li>Which underlying need it was trying to meet \u2014 soothing, belonging, identity, control, care, reward, or numbing<\/li>\n      <li>What I might try instead, next time<\/li>\n    <\/ul>\n\n    <p>The format matters less than the consistency. Two weeks of honest entries will show you more about your emotional spending patterns than years of bank statements ever could.<\/p>\n\n  <\/section>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prompts\">\n\n    <div class=\"rc-prompt\">\n      <div class=\"rc-prompt-head\">\n        <div class=\"rc-prompt-num\"><span class=\"rc-mark\">\u2726<\/span> Your daily journal<\/div>\n        <h3 class=\"rc-prompt-title\">Prefer to keep your journal <em>here?<\/em><\/h3>\n        <p class=\"rc-prompt-setup\">If you&#8217;d rather do this on the page than in a notebook, write each day&#8217;s entries in the box below, using the list above as your guide. Bookmark this page so you can return to it each day for the next two weeks \u2014 your entries stay on this device.<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-capture\">\n        <div class=\"rc-capture-label\">\n          <span>Daily entries \u2014 across fourteen days<\/span>\n          <span class=\"rc-capture-saved\" data-rc-saved=\"journal-entries\">\u2713 Saved<\/span>\n        <\/div>\n        <textarea class=\"rc-tall\" data-rc-capture=\"journal-entries\" placeholder=\"Day 1 \u2014 date &amp; time, what I bought, what was happening before, how I felt in my body and emotionally, what I hoped it would do, the need underneath, what I might try next time\u2026\"><\/textarea>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n  <\/section>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prose\">\n\n    <h2>What to look for <em>after fourteen days<\/em><\/h2>\n\n    <p>When two weeks are up, read through your entries from the beginning. Don&#8217;t analyze as you go \u2014 read the whole thing first, then sit with what you notice.<\/p>\n\n    <p>Most people find several things:<\/p>\n\n    <ul>\n      <li><strong>Recurring trigger contexts.<\/strong> Specific situations, people, times of day, or emotional states that appear repeatedly before emotional spending. Hard days at work. Conflict with a partner. Sunday evenings. Scrolling late at night. The context is usually more consistent than people expect.<\/li>\n      <li><strong>A dominant underlying need.<\/strong> One or two of the seven needs accounting for the majority of entries. This is your signature \u2014 the emotional hunger your spending has been trying to feed most reliably.<\/li>\n      <li><strong>A physical signature.<\/strong> The same bodily signals firing repeatedly before emotional purchases. This is your early warning system \u2014 the body telling you what&#8217;s coming before your conscious mind has caught up.<\/li>\n      <li><strong>A widening gap.<\/strong> Sometimes, across the fourteen days, you&#8217;ll notice yourself catching the pattern before the purchase happens. That gap \u2014 between the urge and the action \u2014 is progress. Write it down. It&#8217;s evidence of something positive.<\/li>\n    <\/ul>\n\n    <p>Pull out your top observations and capture them below. You&#8217;ll bring them forward into your Money Story Map.<\/p>\n\n  <\/section>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prompts\">\n\n    <div class=\"rc-prompt\">\n      <div class=\"rc-prompt-head\">\n        <div class=\"rc-prompt-num\"><span class=\"rc-mark\">1<\/span> After fourteen days<\/div>\n        <h3 class=\"rc-prompt-title\">Your <em>top observations<\/em> from the daily journal.<\/h3>\n        <p class=\"rc-prompt-setup\">Recurring contexts. Dominant need. Physical signature. Gaps you noticed. Don&#8217;t try to capture everything \u2014 capture what stays with you after one slow read-through.<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-capture\">\n        <div class=\"rc-capture-label\">\n          <span>What stood out \u2014 across the fourteen days<\/span>\n          <span class=\"rc-capture-saved\" data-rc-saved=\"journal-obs\">\u2713 Saved<\/span>\n        <\/div>\n        <textarea data-rc-capture=\"journal-obs\" placeholder=\"The contexts that kept appearing, the need that kept showing up, the body signal that kept firing\u2026\"><\/textarea>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n  <\/section>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prose\">\n\n    <h2>Tool 2 \u00b7 The Lifetime Emotional<br><em>Spending Timeline<\/em><\/h2>\n\n    <p><strong>What it&#8217;s for.<\/strong> Zooming out from the daily level and seeing the pattern of patterns \u2014 how your emotional spending behavior has evolved across the major chapters of your life, and what life events shaped each phase.<\/p>\n\n    <p><strong>When to use it.<\/strong> Once. As a single, deeper exercise. Set aside sixty to ninety minutes and do it in one sitting if you can \u2014 the continuity helps.<\/p>\n\n    <p><strong>How to use it.<\/strong> Map your life in phases \u2014 childhood, teens, twenties, thirties, and so on. For each phase, note the major life events of that period, and what you remember about your spending behavior during that time. You&#8217;re looking for the relationship between the two. Here&#8217;s a simplified example of what this might look like:<\/p>\n\n  <\/section>\n\n  <div class=\"rc-compare-wrap\">\n    <div class=\"rc-compare-table rc-compare-table--binary\">\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row rc-compare-head\">\n        <div>Life phase<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"\">Major events<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"\">Spending patterns<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Childhood (0\u201312)<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\">Parents divorced when I was 8<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\">Hoarded change, refused to spend birthday money<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Teens (13\u201319)<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\">First job at 16<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\">Spent every paycheck the day I got it<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Early 20s<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\">First credit card, breakup at 22<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\">Maxed out card after the breakup<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Late 20s<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\">First real job, moved cities<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\">Compulsive online shopping, Sunday nights<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">30s<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\">Career promotion, parent&#8217;s illness<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\">Began avoiding accounts entirely<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Now<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\">Doing this curriculum<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\">Beginning to see the pattern for the first time<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prose\">\n    <p><em>An illustrative example \u2014 your own timeline will look nothing like this, and that&#8217;s the point.<\/em><\/p>\n    <p>Now map your own. Fill in the phases that apply to you \u2014 leave the rest blank, and add the events and spending behavior you remember for each.<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n\n  <div class=\"rc-compare-wrap\">\n    <div class=\"rc-compare-table rc-compare-table--binary\">\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row rc-compare-head\">\n        <div>Life phase<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"\">Major life events<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"\">My spending behavior during this phase<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Childhood (0\u201312)<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-events-1\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"Major life events in this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-spend-1\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"My spending behavior during this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Teens (13\u201319)<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-events-2\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"Major life events in this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-spend-2\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"My spending behavior during this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Early 20s<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-events-3\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"Major life events in this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-spend-3\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"My spending behavior during this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Late 20s<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-events-4\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"Major life events in this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-spend-4\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"My spending behavior during this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">30s<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-events-5\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"Major life events in this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-spend-5\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"My spending behavior during this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">40s<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-events-6\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"Major life events in this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-spend-6\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"My spending behavior during this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">50s and beyond<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-events-7\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"Major life events in this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-spend-7\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"My spending behavior during this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"rc-compare-row\">\n        <div class=\"rc-compare-label\">Now<\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Major events\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-events-8\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"Major life events in this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n        <div data-label=\"Spending patterns\"><textarea data-rc-capture=\"tl-spend-8\" rows=\"2\" placeholder=\"My spending behavior during this phase\"><\/textarea><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prose\">\n    <h2>Five integration <em>questions<\/em><\/h2>\n    <p>After you&#8217;ve plotted your timeline, sit with these questions \u2014 in writing, not just in your head.<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prompts\">\n\n    <div class=\"rc-prompt\">\n      <div class=\"rc-prompt-head\">\n        <div class=\"rc-prompt-num\"><span class=\"rc-mark\">1<\/span> Question 1<\/div>\n        <h3 class=\"rc-prompt-title\">What life events most clearly <em>shifted<\/em> my spending behavior?<\/h3>\n        <p class=\"rc-prompt-setup\">Sometimes a single event \u2014 a loss, a gain, a relationship change, a move \u2014 marks a permanent before-and-after. Name it specifically.<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-capture\">\n        <div class=\"rc-capture-label\">\n          <span>The events that shifted things<\/span>\n          <span class=\"rc-capture-saved\" data-rc-saved=\"q-shift\">\u2713 Saved<\/span>\n        <\/div>\n        <textarea data-rc-capture=\"q-shift\" placeholder=\"The before-and-after event, named specifically\u2026\"><\/textarea>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"rc-prompt\">\n      <div class=\"rc-prompt-head\">\n        <div class=\"rc-prompt-num\"><span class=\"rc-mark\">2<\/span> Question 2<\/div>\n        <h3 class=\"rc-prompt-title\">What patterns <em>repeat<\/em> across my life, even when the circumstances changed?<\/h3>\n        <p class=\"rc-prompt-setup\">A recurring impulse pattern at every major transition. A recurring avoidance pattern at every moment of high stress. A recurring over-giving pattern in every close relationship. The repetition is the signal.<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-capture\">\n        <div class=\"rc-capture-label\">\n          <span>The patterns that repeat<\/span>\n          <span class=\"rc-capture-saved\" data-rc-saved=\"q-repeats\">\u2713 Saved<\/span>\n        <\/div>\n        <textarea data-rc-capture=\"q-repeats\" placeholder=\"The pattern that shows up again and again, in different shapes\u2026\"><\/textarea>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"rc-prompt\">\n      <div class=\"rc-prompt-head\">\n        <div class=\"rc-prompt-num\"><span class=\"rc-mark\">3<\/span> Question 3<\/div>\n        <h3 class=\"rc-prompt-title\">What was my emotional life like during my most <em>uncentered<\/em> spending periods?<\/h3>\n        <p class=\"rc-prompt-setup\">Almost always, the dysregulation was a response to something \u2014 even when you couldn&#8217;t name it at the time. What was happening?<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-capture\">\n        <div class=\"rc-capture-label\">\n          <span>What was happening underneath<\/span>\n          <span class=\"rc-capture-saved\" data-rc-saved=\"q-dysregulated\">\u2713 Saved<\/span>\n        <\/div>\n        <textarea data-rc-capture=\"q-dysregulated\" placeholder=\"The emotional weather during those periods\u2026\"><\/textarea>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"rc-prompt\">\n      <div class=\"rc-prompt-head\">\n        <div class=\"rc-prompt-num\"><span class=\"rc-mark\">4<\/span> Question 4<\/div>\n        <h3 class=\"rc-prompt-title\">What was different during periods when my spending felt more <em>centered?<\/em><\/h3>\n        <p class=\"rc-prompt-setup\">This is the glimmer-mining question. What made those phases different? What conditions, supports, or practices were in place that aren&#8217;t in place now?<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-capture\">\n        <div class=\"rc-capture-label\">\n          <span>What made the centered periods different<\/span>\n          <span class=\"rc-capture-saved\" data-rc-saved=\"q-centered\">\u2713 Saved<\/span>\n        <\/div>\n        <textarea data-rc-capture=\"q-centered\" placeholder=\"The conditions, supports, or practices that were present then\u2026\"><\/textarea>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"rc-prompt\">\n      <div class=\"rc-prompt-head\">\n        <div class=\"rc-prompt-num\"><span class=\"rc-mark\">5<\/span> Question 5<\/div>\n        <h3 class=\"rc-prompt-title\">What is the <em>through-line<\/em> of my emotional spending story?<\/h3>\n        <p class=\"rc-prompt-setup\">In one sentence, what has your spending been <em>for<\/em> across the whole arc of your life? That sentence \u2014 honest, specific, yours \u2014 is one of the most valuable things you&#8217;ll produce in this entire curriculum.<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-capture\">\n        <div class=\"rc-capture-label\">\n          <span>My spending has always been a way to\u2026<\/span>\n          <span class=\"rc-capture-saved\" data-rc-saved=\"throughline\">\u2713 Saved<\/span>\n        <\/div>\n        <textarea data-rc-capture=\"throughline\" placeholder=\"My spending has always been a way to\u2026\"><\/textarea>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n  <\/section>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-prose\">\n\n    <h2>What both tools <em>reveal together<\/em><\/h2>\n\n    <p>The daily journal shows you the micro patterns \u2014 what&#8217;s happening this week, during this purchase, for this trigger. The lifetime timeline shows you the macro patterns \u2014 what&#8217;s been happening for decades.<\/p>\n\n    <p>When you read them together, something tends to happen that I find quietly powerful every time I watch it occur in someone&#8217;s work:<\/p>\n\n    <p>You realize that the impulse purchase you made on Tuesday evening is the same emotional logic as something you did when you were nineteen. The vehicle changed. The cargo didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n\n    <p>That recognition \u2014 that your present behavior is a continuation of a long-running pattern, and that the pattern has always been trying to do something for you \u2014 is the doorway out. Not because seeing it automatically stops it. But because you stop treating each episode as an isolated failure of discipline, and start treating it as a single instance of a larger story you now have the power to author.<\/p>\n\n    <p class=\"rc-anchor\">Patterns become changeable when they become visible. You&#8217;ve just made yours visible.<\/p>\n\n  <\/section>\n\n  <section class=\"rc-bridge\">\n    <div class=\"rc-bridge-card\">\n      <div class=\"rc-bridge-eyebrow\">What&#8217;s next<\/div>\n      <h3 class=\"rc-bridge-title\">Inherited vs. chosen beliefs<\/h3>\n      <p>You&#8217;ve named where your beliefs came from, what your identity has been, what your triggers and glimmers are, and what your emotional spending has been trying to do for you. Part 2.10 is where you sort all of that \u2014 deciding which beliefs you&#8217;re consciously carrying forward, and which you&#8217;re consciously releasing.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/section>\n\n  <nav class=\"rc-foot\">\n    <a href=\"\/blog\/reset\/examine\/triggers-and-glimmers-exercise\/\" class=\"rc-foot-card\">\n      <div class=\"rc-foot-card-label\">\u2190 Previous \u00b7 Part 2.8<\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-foot-card-title\">The Financial Triggers &amp; Glimmers Exercise<\/div>\n    <\/a>\n    <a href=\"\/blog\/reset\/examine\/inherited-or-chosen\/\" class=\"rc-foot-card rc-next\">\n      <div class=\"rc-foot-card-label\">Up next \u00b7 Part 2.10 \u2192<\/div>\n      <div class=\"rc-foot-card-title\">Inherited vs. Chosen Beliefs<\/div>\n    <\/a>\n  <\/nav>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Module 2 Examine \u00b7 Your Money Story \u2190 Part 2.8 Part 9 of 14 Part 2.10 \u2192 Financial Wellness RESET\u2122 Curriculum \/ Module 2 \u00b7 Examine \/ Part 2.9 Exercise \u00b7 13 min read Tracking your emotional spending:daily journal &amp; 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